layers of discretion
women seem to prefer a discreet system to make their opinions known before women talked to the priest in the village about issues and then the priest talked to the village about problems then the men in the village talked about how to fix problems and the women didn't disagree with the men because the men were finally talking about how to fix problems that women wanted to be fixed example: if daughters want to go riding horses but many families can't afford that because it's too expensive then mothers don't complain in media or to politicians about high cost of riding horses instead daughters, mothers or women make the issue known so that some man find out about the high cost of riding horses and then that man talk to other men about how families could afford so that their daughters ride horses and after a few layers of connections the issue could end up on some politician's table ...