legal course of action

if a child girl is in love with a man 

then that child girl could together with her parents or relatives 

meet that man and socialize as a group at home or café or similar 

sometimes, now and again for many years until she becomes older 

and later when that child girl got older until she became a teenage girl 

so that she is of legal age to have sex 

then that teenage girl could go on dates with the man she loves and have sex 

then that could probably make that child girl happier 

and less heartbroken