female communication

girls seem to follow strict rules in how they communicate 

they don't say certain things 

instead they communicate those certain things non verbally 

with facial gestures, body language, intonation of voice and so on 

they are not forced by others to communicate that way 

instead they choose to do so 

and all girls probably communicate that way 

which indicates that it's because of evolutionary reasons 

if an individual has valuable jewelry at home 

then that individual will not tell everyone in the city 

that it has valuable jewelry at home 

because then someone might break into it's home 

and steal it's jewelry 

 

with the same logic 

if a girl is in love with a guy 

then she will not say to many people who she is in love with 

because then someone might threaten to hurt that guy 

in order to control her 

so a girl communicates non verbally to her friends 

that she is in love with a guy 

and her friends guess who that guy is 

and in that way the girl has deniability 

and her friends have deniability 

so that it's difficult for others to know which guy 

the girl really loves 

so that it becomes difficult for someone 

to threaten to hurt the guy 

in order to control the girl that loves him 

girls use non verbal communication 

and other methods 

as social strategies, social shields and social defences

to protect the guys they love and to protect their future children 

and later to protect their husband and children 

and to protect their family, friends and relatives 

because girls communicate different from guys 

then it becomes difficult for guys to understand girls 

and when girls want guys to understand something important 

then girls will communicate non verbally with guys 

because girls don't want to speak too much about the important thing 

so then it becomes even more difficult for guys to understand girls