results based social strategies regarding dating

if a girl is sexually/romantically attracted to a guy 

and girl sees that guy is looking at, meeting or talking to other girls 

then a girl's instinct will be to try to make sure that guy sees that girl is meeting and talking to other guys 

this will likely result in guy loosing interest in girl, 

hence, girl's social strategy has no results 

if a girl become more sexually/romantically attracted to a guy, 

her instincts will become stonger  

if a girl's instincts become stronger, her social strategies will likely become more exaggerated and complex and thereby more inefficient 

a girl has a tendency to want to visually show a guy that she is sexually/romantically attracted to him, 

while a guy prefers verbal communication to establish interest

this usually leads to misunderstandings and as a consequence no results

a girl is usually worried that she show too much emotion when she communicate with a guy she is sexually/romantically attracted to 

and the guy usually think that the girl show too little emotion 

if a girl is sexually/romantically attracted to a guy, 

she hides her emotions from him by being sexy so that he looks at her body and doesn't notice her storm of emotions that she is trying to hide from him

she feels more shy from him looking her in the eyes, than if he looks at her butt 

it's usually easy for a girl to talk to guys that she consider to be friends, but if a girl is sexually/romantically attracted to a guy, then it's more difficult for a girl to talk to him 

if many girls are sexually/romantically attracted to the same guy, 

then girls have a tendency to use their social strategies against each other instead of using their social strategies to establish relationship with guy