who is the bait, the man or the young girls in love with him

if a man has talent and/or value, 

then humans worries that young girls could be trap for man, 

and humans tries to protect man from young girls 

but if young girls are in love with man, 

then man could be trap for young girls, 

if many young girls are in love with man and man has patience, 

then man will probably be with young girls sooner or later, 

but many young girls prevented by humans from being with man they love, will be furious