romance logic is different from work logic

a woman might know how be able to negotiate with her company about her salary 

a man might know how to strategize in a soccer game 

but it's difficult for a woman to use her negotiating skills from work, 

to negotiate with her man 

and it's difficult for a man to use his strategizing skills from games, 

to strategize about his woman 

because work logic is not romance logic 

and game logic is not romance logic, 

the logic might be similar, 

but it's different logic

when woman and man is in a romantic relationship with each other, 

then they use romance logic when they communicate and interact with each other 

and romance logic is different from logic that functions during other circumstances