basic verbal, non-verbal

boyfriend and girlfriend like each other, 

boyfriend and girlfriend talk about the food they bought, 

girlfriend behaves like she is angry, 

if boyfriend ask her if she is angry, 

then she will most likely say she is not angry, 

if boyfriend ignore to ask girlfriend if she is angry 

and instead talk with girlfriend about whatever while trying to figure out why girlfriend is angry, 

then boyfriend might figure out why girlfriend is angry 

and boyfriend might try to fix what makes girlfriend angry, 

so that so that girlfriend has no reason to be angry any more, 

maybe boyfriend never figures out why girlfriend is angry 

and maybe boyfriend never fixes what makes girlfriend angry, 

but if boyfriend tries to figure out what makes girlfriend angry without asking her, 

then maybe girlfriends sees that her boyfriend is trying 

and that makes her happy enough that she becomes happy instead of angry even if the problems that make her angry remain unfixed